Youth & Family Ministry
The mission of the Youth and Family Ministry is to spread God's glory broader and deeper by equipping the DSC body to lead its youth in the process of Christian maturity. We recognize parents as the God-given and primary instrument of discipleship in a child's life. Therefore the Youth Ministry should never replace parents, but rather come alongside them in the work they are doing. While we have lots of fun together, our philosophy of ministry is no different than the rest of the church—we want our students and families to treasure and worship Jesus above all else because of a greater knowledge of God's glory and our sin.
Service Opportunities
Our adult DSC Youth leaders are church members we equip to partner with parents and together, guide youth in the process of Christian maturity. We want our students to walk in joyful obedience to all that Christ commanded and to treasure and worship Jesus above all else. We envision spreading God’s glory by:
S: Studying the Bible
P: Preaching the Gospel
R: Reaching the Students
E: Equipping the Body
A: Applying the Bible
D: Discipling the Disciple-Makers
DSC Youth leaders are a significant voice in encouraging students to engage in fellowship, singing, learning from God’s word, and they facilitate small group study. Leaders and students have fun together as strong and healthy relationships are cultivated, and as students learn how they can belong to God’s family.
At DSC, we hold the weekly assembly of the entire church—both young and old—as one of our highest values. While our youth meetings are important, they do not replace our main church services but are in addition to them. Thus, we strongly encourage families to attend Sunday service together.
Our youth meet every Thursday evening in the Youth Room from 6:30 PM - 8:15 PM, but students are free to come and hang out at 6:00 PM. In this meeting, we worship God by sitting under the expository preaching of His Word, by singing His praise and by diving deep in the the study of Scripture in age and gender specific small groups. For more information email Ben Hobbs at ben@dscabq.com to sign up for the DSC Youth Weekly.
Philosophy of Ministry
- Why Youth Stay in Church When They Grow Up
- They are converted — so we need to pray for the saving work of God in their lives and teach them the Word.
- They have been equipped, not entertained — "are we sending out students that will show up to college in a different state, join a church, and begin doing the work of gospel ministry without being asked?"
- Their parents preached the gospel to them — "the common thread that binds together almost every ministry-minded 20-something that I know is abundantly clear; a home where the gospel was not peripheral but absolutely central."
- Family First in Youth Discipleship and Evangelism
The biblical model is that parents are to be the primary evangelizers/disciplers of their children — parents need to take responsibility for this, commit themselves to this work, and not presume the church will do this work. The church must actively place this responsibility on the parents, and equip and encourage them in this work. - Youth Ministry Done Well for the Benefit of the Church
- Word-centered — send out students who believe, read, study, and love God's Word.
- Church-focused — "A church-focused youth ministry has leaders who go out of their way to remind the students (and themselves) that their youth group is not the church.
- Family-oriented — the youth ministry should stand with parents, partner with them and equip them in their ministry to their children.
- Benefits of a Youth Ministry Done Well — Young people hear voice of other godly Christians, young people need to learn to minister the gospel, young people encourage one another, young people will grow up, and young people share the gospel.
Links
by John and Noel Piper
by Jon Nielson
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Books
Age of Opportunity: A Biblical Guide to Parenting Teens
by Paul David Tripp
Shepherding a Child's Heart
by Tedd Tripp
Big Truths for Young Hearts: Teaching and Learning the Greatness of God
by Bruce A. Ware
Training Hearts Teaching Minds: Family Devotions Based on the Shorter Catechism
by Starr Meade
Family Worship: In the Bible, in History & in Your Home
by Donald S. Whitney
A Guide to Biblical Manhood
by Randy Stinson and Dan Dumas
Mighty Men: The Starter's Guide to Leading Your Family
by John H. Crotts
God's Big Picture: Tracing the Storyline of the Bible
by Vaughan Roberts
Christian Beliefs: Twenty Basics Every Christian Should Know
by Wayne Grudem and Elliot Grudem
Am I Really a Christian?
by Mike McKinley
Sex, Dating, and Relationships: A Fresh Approach
by Gerald Hiestand and Jay S. Thomas
Sexual Detox: A Guide for Guys Who Are Sick of Porn
by Tim Challies
Modest: Men and Women Clothed in the Gospel
by R. W. Glenn and Tim Challies